Destiny is not a matter of Chance..

Most of us know about the quote " Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice ", I have lived my whole life looking up to that quote as a guideline. Whatever happened in my life today and wherever I may be in the future, I will be the one taking responsibility of what path I have decided to take.

I was so shocked and confused last weekend when an old friend of mine back in college blamed me of what happened to our other friend! I was speechless when she told me that our friend got married to a non-christian guy because of me not helping her despite the fact that I am here in the United States.

I just want to clarify something;
1. I decided to come here in the United States not because I want to bail out everybody!
2. I came here because I am getting married to my fiancee.
3. I came here not to bust my ass off working just to make someone else's life comfortable!
4. Lastly, I came here without promising anybody that I will help them when I knew the fact that I am gambling my whole damn life because I don't even know where I am going to and beside the point that we had these massive seminar trying to convince us not to go because of these unfortunate incidents that a lot of Filipinos has been a victim of and I even knew some of them!

And now you have the nerve to tell me that it is my damn fault that she got married to that guy because I never helped her????


Hello! I didn't make your destiny! It is you who choose your destiny! It is your damn choices to go to that particular path and I don't even know any of it.

So stop blaming me...