Destiny is not a matter of Chance..

Most of us know about the quote " Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice ", I have lived my whole life looking up to that quote as a guideline. Whatever happened in my life today and wherever I may be in the future, I will be the one taking responsibility of what path I have decided to take.

I was so shocked and confused last weekend when an old friend of mine back in college blamed me of what happened to our other friend! I was speechless when she told me that our friend got married to a non-christian guy because of me not helping her despite the fact that I am here in the United States.

I just want to clarify something;
1. I decided to come here in the United States not because I want to bail out everybody!
2. I came here because I am getting married to my fiancee.
3. I came here not to bust my ass off working just to make someone else's life comfortable!
4. Lastly, I came here without promising anybody that I will help them when I knew the fact that I am gambling my whole damn life because I don't even know where I am going to and beside the point that we had these massive seminar trying to convince us not to go because of these unfortunate incidents that a lot of Filipinos has been a victim of and I even knew some of them!

And now you have the nerve to tell me that it is my damn fault that she got married to that guy because I never helped her????


Hello! I didn't make your destiny! It is you who choose your destiny! It is your damn choices to go to that particular path and I don't even know any of it.

So stop blaming me...

Meeting a friend

My friend who is 32 weeks pregnant and I (23 weeks pregnant) decided to meet and have lunch yesterday. We just ate at the local Chinese buffet and then went to the Burlington Coat factory store. Of course we wanted to see each other again since we haven't seen each for almost a year now and wanted to know what new with her and she wanted to see me pregnant too since this my first pregnancy. I invited my other friend but she couldn't make it but it's okay. We have plenty of next time right? We have chit-chatted a whole bunch of stuff and I kinda like to do it once in awhile to kinda know what is going with our other friends. I don't really go to a lot of friends get together because the I get involve the more trouble I will get into(in my opinion), I am just observing and I hate rumors and talking behind each others back that's why I don't go to much.

We had fun and of course we are like hey you'll go to my baby shower right? and I'll say you'll go to my baby shower too right? It's hilarious but I had fun.